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Estate wind up


Well, haven't talked much about the estate, as there wasn't much to talk about, easy stuff was kinda easy, and hard stuff was taking way to long what with lawyer and court.

But, that all got wrapped up around two weeks ago, and things have been winding down quickly. Got the paperwork over the first weekend of the month, and put things in motion. Some were relatively easy, Morgan Stanley and Discover both offer ways to file paperwork with them online, and then it was just waiting to hear from them, which happened about a week later.

Discover as per my instructions simply closed all the accounts and deposited the money into a checking account I have with them.
Morgan Stanley gave me a bit of a scare, I logged in at the link they emailed me, and my old MS stuff was missing, turns out that its a seperate site, and while they both use the same credentials, they bring up a completely different set of accounts, with no connection between them. Now its just a matter of waiting for the funds to show up.
Apple was harder, I had to mail documents to them, but they called today to follow up, and we electronically filed paperwork with them. That turned into a bit of a fiasco as I needed to set up an Apple account, but with some support from Support, we got that sorted out, and aside from a document that needs to be notarized, everything has been uploaded. The extra document is because apparently you can have a Green Dot account attached to your Apple account, and Vik did, so I gotta file for them to give me whatever is in that account. I am a little worried as it wasn't part of the court award because we didn't know about it, but we'll see what happens.
Last matter is Farmers, and that's not going as well, they can't reissue the check they sent Vik to me, only to his estate, so hopefully my credit union will continue to be awesome, and I'll be able to deposit that. Seriously, if'n you're in the #STL metro, get an account with First Community Credit Union, you won't regret it.

So what's left at this point?
Returning his mom's stuff to her family, that's more or less set up. We also need to get a grave marker for him, his mom, his cat and me, just waiting to hear back from the family so we can put that together.

At that point, the only thing left will be spreading their ashes (him and his mom) at Myrtle Beach, its something she wanted that he never got to, and I think he'd like having some of his spread with hers. After that, rest, then start figuring out the next chapter of my life.


If there's one thing you should take from my journey to this point, get a will, get a proper will, trust me, your family will thank you. If'n you have some idea of where you want to be buried and/or how you want your remains to be handled, make sure that's recorded, and if possible, prepay for it. Seriously, this stuff is harder than you think, being a spouse, or being family of any sort is no guarantee, in fact there's a good chance that it won't amount to a hill of beans. Seriously, some companies wouldn't give me the time of day without going through the court, being married matters not at all. There are plenty of resources to help you plan, especially if'n you're part of the LGBTQ+ community.

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Lets have some pride images, starting with what I have for my fellow Aces. That last one was made for me by a lovely person on Tumblr.

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Pride post two, St Louis inclusive pride banner, St Louis inclusive pride flag, and St Louis Trans pride flag

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Ok, that was not a fun way to do things, up for a bit as I wasn't feeling well, but went back to sleep for a few hours and got up at 1030.
Now breakfast, and the interesting year continues, a bacon and cheese omelet over cheese, beans and rice. What's interesting about it? For me meat is unimportant, if I can get it on clearance at the local grocery (sell by today, I break it down and freeze it), I get it. Crazy enough, I've had meat omelets almost every day this year, for whatever reason whether its chorizo, bacon or Italian sausage, there's been clearance meat at least once a month every month so far this year.
What else today?
Not much, its raining so nothing outside, just laundry and prolly continue some sorting out the estate's comic collection. Oh, and dishes. Beyond that? No plans.
Tomorrow?
Estate stuff, gotta get Farmers to reissue a check, gotta sort out things with Morgan Stanley, plus I need to try to finish getting things together on 2024 taxes as those'll be getting a review. Hopefully I'll hear something from Apple tomorrow, but I'm not holding my breath, like the Apple Card, dealing with Apple is archaic, so that could take a while.

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Photos of parents supporting their kids during Pride

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GTS Problem


Ok, resurrected my gofer.social account to give GoToSocial a real try, since I can't find any Wafrn hosting, and its good over all, but I am having a bit of a problem, YouTube links don't get a thumbnail, and web links don't get any kind of summary, is this normal for GoToSocial, or is gofer having issues?

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@Bryan Ah, thanks. Hmm, that might scratch me shifting to it then.







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So, while I'm not sure, the account will take over life posts from here, but for now I'll be boosting here. Likely breakdown of my accounts:

@ChuffΒ² will be my core account, the one I follow people from, and the one that I post memes, articles, do boosts from, etc.
@Chuff will be life posts, work posts, and YouTube shares
@Wandering Cactus will be various short (up to 3 minute) videos on anything, typically work or EV stuff.

Will any of this change in the future?
Sure, its possible, I mean as I mentioned in this post, I'd love to see someone build off of @Fedilab Apps work on #Holos Social to create a more traditional #android #Fediverse server, I mean imagine how the Fediverse could grow if'n having your own server was basically just a matter of downloading an app on a spare phone or other Android device you have laying around ( Android 4 compatibility would let me do something truly absurd) running on your home network, compared to what it takes to self-host now.


Ok, dusting this off, likely it'll be a replacement for blog.taursnd.haus/profile/vext… and blog.taursnd.haus/profile/vext… , with an eye towards hosting my own #gotosocial in the future.
This might change, we'll see, if @apps@fedilab.app were to create a server app based on #holosocial or someone were to fork it to do that, I'd prolly go with that, especially if'n it was #android 4.x compatible.

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Susan Rice (former national security advisor) wrote this about Trump's Memorandum of Understanding: "This is a jaw-dropping, horrific surrender document complete with hundreds of billions in reparations. It is the predictable result of incompetent negotiation and the foolhardy strategic catastrophe of starting and pursuing a disastrous war. The United States will not soon recover from this, the biggest national security blunder in decades."
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