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I used to think packaged pre-cut veg at the supermarket was for lazy people.

Then a disabled person pointed out it was a lifeline for them because they lived alone and couldn’t cut it up themselves most days.

I had never even considered that. It changed my perspective and I think from then on when something seems “lazy” I always ask myself “is this just accessible?”
And it’s nearly always the latter.

It’s not hard to listen to someone when they say something is not accessible and it’s not difficult to shift your perspective.
I don’t know why so many people won’t.

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in reply to Troggie

Thanks for this, never occurred to me that this helped with access.
in reply to Troggie

The thing is, pre-cut veg *is* for lazy people. Laziness isn’t a crime. It’s also convenient for busy parents and folks working long hours.

Accessibility is for everyone.
It is extremely rare that something accessible to a disabled person makes things *less* accessible for the non-disabled.

in reply to Troggie

@Troggie I know that one, I do the 20 minute meal kits from Hello Fresh or frozen meals in a bad because far too often I don't have the energy or time to do a full meal from scratch at my age.
in reply to Troggie

exactly. Also, disabled people are a minority with ultimately not that much buying power. Which means without abled people also buying it, stores might get rid of it because it doesn't sell well. So "lazy" people are actually very helpful here.
in reply to Troggie

Laziness as a concept is about punishing disabled people for not being able to Do The Thing when the reason is either not acceptable or not articulate-able, e.g. executive dysfunction, sensory issues, migraines, etc.
in reply to Troggie

I remember I used to get really down on myself for being what I considered was lazy and someone told me that I’m not lazy I just valued my time and energy in a manner where I didn’t want to spend it doing certain things and that changed my LIFE tbqh
in reply to Troggie

I've heard similar arguments for precooked hard boiled eggs, but I've had such trouble monitoring how they're cooked and conflicting information on how to cook them and then properly peeling, that it's just easier to outsource it to professionals doing it better in bulk than I could

there's no shame these days against people buying store bought mass produced clothing instead of making your own either

in reply to Troggie

Also, they often cut it better than I ever could. Shredding or thin slicing carrots or cheese or bread or whatever is a LOT of work and mess: better an expensive machine do it in bulk than me do it by hand.
in reply to Troggie

Got another one for you. Buffets? The single least accessible means of providing food to a large number of people.

My perspective, as a cane-user: I am already one-handed. So immediately, I have the problem: how do I hold my plate, while also filling my plate? Rarely is there room on the buffet for a plate to be set down. Almost no one ever thinks to offer assistance to people who have disabilities in using the buffet.

Before I even get to the plate, of course, I have the problem of how they bring people to line up. If, as is often the case, they call it table by table, then I am almost certainly, by random chance, going to end up in a long line waiting to access the buffet. Standing is painful to me, even more so than walking.

So I'm exhausted and sore. I arrive at the buffet. I get a plate and cutlery, which somehow I manage to carry in one hand. I have to balance the plate on my cane-arm while trying to pile food on it with my non-dominant hand.

Moving down the buffet, I come to the dessert tables! Hurrah! Only the only way to get a dessert is to have...another plate!

So I get no dessert, because I don't have a free hand to get it with.

And that's just one person's disability. Wheelchair user? Reaching those bowls up high on the table is going to be hard. Visually impaired? How do you know what you're putting on your plate? What if there's something in it you're allergic to? Gonna read the card maybe?

Missing an upper limb? See above re: being effectively one-handed. Palsied hands? Good luck. And so on, and so on, and so on.

And yet, over and over, I go to conferences, ostensibly social justice-focused affairs, and *every time* they pick the cheapest option, and make no effort to accommodate people for whom the cheap option is the no-food option.

#Disability #DisabilityPrideMonth

in reply to Cait the Proud Trans Woman

@oldladyplays this. As someone who frequently uses a cane, buffets are a nightmare. I’m fortunate in that I can limp without the cane, but it’s definitely a challenge.
in reply to Keith Hoodlet :verified: :donor:

@securingdev @oldladyplays
How about something basic... transportation.

I'm in a power chair. Not all cab co's have wheelchair accessible vans. If I'm lucky enough to find an accessible cab, I get to pay out the *ss to go anywhere because it's a special vehicle request.

I could ride my chair to my doc's office, but there's ONE driveway that's SO steep I can't go over it without risking tipping over. Same for the pharmacy, except it's a sidewalk gap that would force me into traffic.

in reply to Spiritual Annie ☮️

@SpiritualAnnie @securingdev @oldladyplays
I recently moved to Portland, Maine, and even as an able bodied person I am *stunned* by how wheelchair inaccessible this city is. Two of my doctor's offices have stairs and no elevator. You'd think a doctor's office would be better than that!