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in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

I mean Iโ€™m in the demographic of this, I know no rapist. Also if I were hypothetically a rapist I wouldnโ€™t tell anybody, not even friends, while a woman that has been raped is in her right to speak up for a bunch of reasons.
in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

We do. But we either understand that speaking out about will have harsh social consequences, or we're told by his women friends that "he couldn't, he would never," or we are told "every accusation is a confession," which is often true, but some accusation/confessions are worse than others.
in reply to Askold

@gonzo_askold might be it.
.when a guy goes out with the guys its him his mate Steve, and one tag alomg.

When my gf goes out with her friends, they pick her up in like a shuttle bus

in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

because we are two few men to remember Socrates and apply bluntly his ยซ Know thyself ยป maxim ?
in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

Every man does know a rapist. More likely multiple. Every man knows another man who says things like 'grab em by the pussy'. They just make excuses for him.
in reply to GutterPoetry

Bullshit.

Sorry, you really just let yourself down to the niveau of the people doing and justifying all this shit with your hostile generalization. You really don't help anyone by spreading such bullshit.

@GutterPoetry @vextaur

in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

80% of rapes are committed by 20% or rapists. A relatively small number of serial rapists commit most of the acts of sexual violence.
That being said, I'm sure every guy does know one. They may not know they know one, but...
in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

because rape is a sociopathic, vicious and shameful act. All men know this but that doesn't stop them. However, the rapist will then go to great lengths to justify his cruelty. Both to himself and more rarely to others.
in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

At the risk of sounding flippantโ€ฆ honestly, I think itโ€™s because the weโ€™re not of interest to the rapist so they have no need to reveal themselves to us. If you know someone is a rapist and youโ€™re not a rapist yourself then - I believe - itโ€™s more likely you know because they attacked you or someone you know and the victim told you.

Males and men are not monolithic in that sense. We arenโ€™t confessionals for each other. Or maybe they donโ€™t confess to me?

in reply to ๐ŸŒด Seph ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ‘พ

The words in black and red marker leave me breathless, then gasping, then crying. Why have I never asked myself this question before?
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